knoweing

i think when talking about relationships, i often hear that you can’t meet the other if you haven’t met yourself-or, in other words, that you can’t love them if you can’t love yourself-

but in my experience, i have met myself -key aspects of myself- while in a relationship with other

true, i think healthy relationships might rely on two individuals who have met themselves first -as much as they could- and that they have learned to love themselves 

but i still hold true that your relationship with others helps you broaden your views and that it ignites change and sheds some light on things about yourself that you might have not discovered if not through interaction 

that’s what i think these days, anyway